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Psych.PhD. Andrei Alin Milosi-SchernbergerChild advocate · certified professional guardian · supplementary guardian

Orientation in a difficult situation

For parents

Family-court proceedings can be unsettling. I explain my role transparently and keep the child’s situation, rights and interests at the centre.

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What you can expect

Depending on the court mandate, I speak with your child, with you and where necessary with other relevant people. I listen to different perspectives without becoming an advocate for either parent.

  • Clear information about role and process
  • Respectful and objective communication
  • Questions about development, daily life, relationships, stress and protective factors
  • No promise of a particular court outcome
  • No sensitive documents through insecure channels

How you can reduce pressure on your child

Explain the situation simply and without blame. Do not rehearse answers or use the child as a messenger. A child is allowed to love both parents while also describing distressing experiences.

Boundaries

A child advocate does not provide legal advice to parents and does not replace parenting support or therapy. Guardianship and supplementary guardianship are governed by the powers transferred by the court.